Rockets, Bombs, & Blood: Reflections on the Gaza Conflict
I have done some traveling in my time. I am by no stretch of the imagination as well-traveled as some, but still I have set my foot on the soil of several foreign lands. From these journeys, I have not only learned much about those individual nations and their cultures but I have also come to receive some very important insights into people in general and the world in which we live.
The first, and most important, of these insights is that it matters not where you go, whether it be in the land of friends or the land of foes, in general, people are good and decent. They may speak different languages and dress differently, they may pray in very different ways or not pray at all, but when it comes down to fundamental human character, they are not really any different from us. Like us, just as we have some very good people and some very bad ones in our society, so do they in theirs.
I first came to this realization during a frigid December while walking the streets of Moscow, when it was the capitol of the U.S.S.R., or as Ronald Reagan liked to call it, “The Evil Empire.” I learned it while watching these blood enemies of the American way as they stood in long lines waiting for a bus in the freezing cold, yet they automatically welcomed pregnant women and women with small children to the front of the line. I learned it while watching a Soviet father, in the midst of winter, pushing his child on a swing in a snow covered playground.
I learned it in Israel, particularly in the Old City of Jerusalem, as I sat, drinking Turkish coffee, schmoozing and laughing with Palestinian storekeepers as we cordially bandied over the price of possible purchases. I learned it there as I watched one Palestinian merchant playfully haggle with 8 year old Helene over the price of a tee shirt, and letting her get the better of him. I learned it there while on a UJA – now United Jewish Communities – mission with Dick & Harriet Gottlieb and their children. After hearing stern warnings by our tour guide to protect our wallets and purses from the thieving Palestinians, one Palestinian teenager walked up to Jason Gottlieb and warned him that his backpack was open.
The second of these insights is born of the first. That insight is that we cannot confuse a people with their government. We are blessed to live in a true democracy where here, maybe more than in any other country on the planet, our government does accurately reflect the will of our people, for we express that will through the choices we make in the polling booth every election day. Yet it is easy for us to forget that we are in the minority; that most people on this planet are not so blessed; that the positions and policies of their government may not accurately reflect their own values and desires. While their governments may be evil, doing evil things, the majority of the people may actually be good at heart. If the politics did not get in the way, we might find the we could be good friends.
I share this with you because these are important things to remember especially when missiles are being fired and bombs are being dropped, and blood is being spilled on both sides of the recent Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Good people, on both sides, suffered.
It is easy for us as Jews to demonize the Palestinian people, especially when hundreds of rockets have been intentionally aimed and fired at Israel civilians – our brothers and sisters, from infants to the elderly – by Hamas and related terrorist groups in Gaza. But to do so would be an injustice, not only to the Palestinian people as a whole, and not even only to the possibility of forging a future peace, but also to our very souls. For when we demonize a whole people on account of the actions of an evil few who may possess inordinate power, we bring ourselves down to the level of all those who throughout history have mindlessly hated all Jews, for ills, real or imagined, that they felt some Jews may have inflicted upon them. I don’t know about you, but as a Jew, I do not want to be held accountable for the misdeeds of someone like Bernie Madoff. So why should we hold all Palestinians responsible for the misdeeds of Hamas?
That being said, the situation facing Israel makes it all but unavoidable that there will continue to be many Palestinian people – Palestinians who are not members of Hamas, nor who wish to be – who will suffer and even die as a result of Israeli military operations against the terrorists. We cannot forget that the death of the innocent is the greatest tragedy born of war. This is not something to celebrate, as members of Hamas did upon learning of the Tel Aviv bus bombing, but rather it should be something over which to anguish; something that stabs at our conscience as we lament the fact that when we choose war, we should always be choosing it as the lesser of two or more evils. For in war, there really is no glory. Just human suffering which is part of the price we pay when we are convinced that we have been left with no other options but victory.
This is the place in which Israel has found itself; not just in this war but in all its wars, especially in its wars against the Palestinians. There is no question but that Israel cannot ignore or tolerate malicious attacks upon its citizens. No other nation would ever be expected to do so, so why are there those who expect it of Israel? Look at the United States. We experienced one day of attack – September 11, 2001 – and we wound up going to war in two countries; a war which if it ended tomorrow would have lasted for 11 years. Israel was left with no choice but to go to war in Gaza.
There are those who claim that there is always an alternative to war but there are times when that is simply not the case, no matter how much we wish it otherwise. Those folks are so ever ready to condemn Israel for what they call its “aggression.” But in their condemnations, they are being, to say the least, less than honest. Less than honest because they choose to ignore a long history of all of Israel’s serious offers to make peace with its enemies; offers that have been turned down flat. Less than honest because while they are so ready to take up on Hamas’ complaints about the Israeli occupation, they conveniently choose to forget that Israel elected to totally withdraw from Gaza 7 years ago; that Gaza is not occupied – blockaded, yes, but not occupied. Less than honest because they continually turn a blind eye to the true acts of aggression of Hamas against Israeli civilians and then treat the conflict as if the acts of hostility are one-sided. Less than honest in that they ignore the fundamental fact that just as it takes two to tango, so does it take two sides to make peace. When it comes to Israel and Hamas, there is only one side that is interested in talking about peace, and that side is Israel. At best, Hamas is only willing to talk about a cease fire, and then, only when its military resources are depleted and it needs time to regroup and rearm.
When I originally penned these words, a cease fire agreement had just been announced. At that time, I had no idea if it would actually take place or survive by the time I shared these words with you. Now I know that it has taken place. I still am unsure how long it will survive. While a cease fire is preferable to active combat, it is definitely not the answer. The Israelis call such conflicts which end in a cease fire “mowing the lawn.” No matter how nice a job you do when mowing your lawn, and how good it looks right after you are done, you know that the grass is already starting to grow back and the lawn will soon once again need mowing. A cease fire is not the answer because it does not put an end to the violence. It only postpones its continuation. Indeed, it only assures its continuation for it provides both sides with the breathing room to better prepare for the next confrontation, guaranteeing that the next confrontation will be more brutal and bloody than the last. No. Cease fire is not the answer.
So what is Israel to do? As long as Hamas refuses to consider any long term solution, this cycle of violence will continue. Not because Israel wants it to, but because Israel has been left with no other choice.
Of course, there is one obvious choice, other than giving Hamas carte blanche to attack Israeli civilians without repercussions. That choice is an all out war and total victory; going against Hamas with the total might of Israel’s military and not stopping until they are either completely destroyed or unconditionally surrender. Is that not what the Allies did with Germany and Japan in the Second World War? That is an option, but it is an option that even Israel, in the heat of its anger, finds too terrible to consider. And that is to the credit of the Israelis.
Even in the heat of battle, Israel has striven not to forget the price of human suffering that innocent Palestinians pay as a result of the terrorism of Hamas. It has been out of that consciousness that Israel went out of its way in its efforts to minimize civilian casualties, which was just the opposite of the choices made by Hamas. Food and medical supplies still flowed from Israel into Gaza. Neither electricity nor fresh water were cut off. Injured Palestinians were admitted into Israel and treated in Israeli hospitals. Palestinian civilians received advance warning to evacuate areas that were targeted by the Israelis. Israeli surgical strikes were, on occasion, delayed in order to permit civilians to clear the targeted area.
As Jews, we should be very proud of Israel for all its efforts to protect life at a time when it was being forced to take life. As Jews, we should be Israel’s greatest advocates, spreading the word of all the good Israel attempts to do, even in the darkest of times; sharing with our neighbors that information which, somehow or other, the news media either tends to ignore or deems not to be newsworthy.
Most of all, let us pray for peace – a true and lasting peace. Let us pray with all our hearts and souls. Let us pray that the day will soon arrive when Israeli and Palestinian will cease to view each other as enemy and choose to view each other as friend and neighbor.
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